This is quite the interesting situation. How the heck do you pick up girls in a super loud night club, and how do you meet them? Well, everything tends to center around the dance floor, its all about how you do her. The first thing you want to make sure is… that you’re not doing the kinds of mistakes most other guys are doing:
- Sitting around staring at different girls to see if any are interested, this is just off-putting
- Not having fun. In fact, you wanna have fun like there’s no tomorrow and there’s not one girl in sight. You’re having for you, joking around and dancing with your friends.
- Going into the club with a bunch of horny dudes. Make sure you go in with a mixed group that has both guys and girls.
Now, can you still get girls when you do the above mistakes? Of course you can, a ton of guys do those mistakes, but they still get girls. The thing is though, that these mistakes make it at least 10 times less likely you’ll score, so don’t do them!
So what do you instead then?
Like I said when describing the mistakes, you want to go into the club with a huge mixed group containing both guys and girls. Enjoy yourself, enjoy the music, dance and joke around with everyone. Pretend its your private party, and your group is the only group in the club. This will make you a lot more attractive and unique. The girls whom you have a chance with, they will all of a sudden show a desire to pick you up. I’ve done this time and time again with friends. We’ll go into a club, and within 30 minutes, we’ll have like 40 girls surrounding us. Like literally here’s our group… and around our group is one circle of girls, and around that circle is another circle of girls. It works that well… Literally girls from the entire club move in to be closer to you.
Time to make your move:
This is where you pick one of these girls to flirt with. You look her way and make sure you catch her eye. Give her that sly “I want you smile” and see how she reacts. If she’s game, she’ll blush or keep staring just like you. IF she does, she’s game, so go up to her, and be social. Don’t hit on her, as this was not an “I’m your invitation”. Don’t ruin it by skipping steps. Just walk up to her, and act all social, like she’s part of your group. Ask her how she is, is she enjoying the music, and then move back to your group. This will make her want to chase you. Re-initiate and drop the conversation a few more times during the evening until she’s scorching hot with lust. This is where you invite her back to your place or invite her to some activity another day.
