Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question:
Write me some good tips on how to pick-up females you see for the first time? Guys: write me some good to great tips; Females: write what pick up lines do you like from a guy.
My answer:
I’ll start from the last question. Females don’t care which pick up line you use to meet them. They don’t care how you meet them as long as you come of as normal and honest.
I could give you some pickup lines to say to women when going up to them, but that wouldn’t do the trick. When approaching a woman, you must focus on improving your overall presentation. And the opening line is just a tiny bit of that presentation.
So, the most important things are actually pretty simple. You go up to her, have a smile, don’t hold your hands in your pockets, don’t fidget or act nervous in any way, and at last, say what you want to say. I strongly recommend that you say something normal like “Hey, I don’t have some clever pick up line or anything…I just came over here to meet you.”
It’s that simple, that easy, that obvious.
Also, be cool to however she reacts. If she doesn’t welcome your approach, keep your cool smile and be a gentleman about it. You say “Ok, it was nice meeting you”.
Here is another tip about approaching. As you see a female you would like to approach, do it as soon as possible. Just start walking towards her. Don’t worry, your mind will think of something to say.
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Get off the computer, stop asking stupid questions, change your ENTIRE mind state.
Just go watch Vh1′s “The Pickup Artist,” and you’ll get most of the basics down in short order. You don’t need “pickup lines,” just get into a conversation with different women, and see how well it goes.
dude — pick up liness SUCKK!
just talk to herr . shes not going to like it if you try and hit on her within two seconds of meeting her.
dont try to pick up a girl the first time you see her. i no this sounds old fashion but get to know her first. then in time maybe if your looking for a relationship things will happen.
try your best to avoid pick up lines…the majority of girls dont like them
just go talk to her, most grls like it when a guy has enoguh courage to talk to them and be themselves
thts really it…just be yourselff !
best of luckk !