by jbcurio

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

How to pick up girls and good places to pick up girls at.? Okay so I’ve recently had a bunch of girls tell me I was hot but they are between 18 and 20 and I’m only 16 so I think i can pick up girls but i don’t know how because i just lost 85 pounds so I’ve never had a girlfriend or tried to get one because of how fat i was but now i think i could pick up some girls.

My answer:

It’s good to hear you have taken care of yourself on the outside. Now, you have to take care of yourself from the inside. This may sound like complex psychology, but I’ll make it as simple as possible.

Here is the problem. You were probably insecure and not confident when you were fat. Most people are. Now that you have lost weight, your mind doesn’t automatically go “hey, I’m not fat any more, now I can finally get some confidence and self-esteem and realize my dreams”. The problem is that you are probably “still fat in your mind”. You are the same old guy from before, just skinnier this time.

You are asking me for how to meet girls. You said you never had a girlfriend. You first need to start loving yourself and accepting yourself. There are many books and courses on self-confidence. I suggest you try out some of them. Don’t go for the underground ones (like in the Seduction Community). Go for mainstream people like Brian Tracy. Also, search for articles like “how to be more social” or “how to be more confident”.

When you take care of yourself, then you are ready to meet women.

But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.