Here is another cool question from yahoo answers. Check it out and see if it resonates with you.
I’m Irish and i know all about how to pick up girls and stuff, techniques etc. But when i see a hot girl, it just seems so weird to approach her, i don’t know about the US, but in ireland i’ve never seen anyone do that.
Any advice?
My quick answer to this question:
Well, if you had taken my quiz, you wouldn’t even be asking this, lol… The reason you’ve never “seen” anyone do it, is that most guys who pick up girls, are “naturally good” at it. If you actally saw them approaching a girl, you would never ever in a thousand years even think he’s never met this girl before. If you actually saw one of these guys in action, you’d simply assume its just some guy, talking to a female friend or acquintance. There is no flashing neon sign that lights up over a girls head saying “hey, this guy is picking me up over here”… Unless he’s bad at it and she desperately wants to get away from him.
Never seen any of your friends do it? Guess what, most guys in america, australia, asia, eastern or western europe have never seen their guy friends do it either. Solution? GET BETTER friends.

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go up and say hi
Ask her a random question or ask her how to get to some place or offer her something to drink….. and then extend the conversation and be funny and cool and then tell her she is beautiful and then ask her to stay in touch with you and see how things go.