Welcome to my website on picking up girls. I hope you find most of the information on here useful. There’s a ton of stuff, and there’s bound to be some articles or Q&A pieces that answer your question. So look into all the articles listed below or to the side.

by jbcurio

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

How to pick up girls and good places to pick up girls at.? Okay so I’ve recently had a bunch of girls tell me I was hot but they are between 18 and 20 and I’m only 16 so I think i can pick up girls but i don’t know how because i just lost 85 pounds so I’ve never had a girlfriend or tried to get one because of how fat i was but now i think i could pick up some girls.

My answer:

It’s good to hear you have taken care of yourself on the outside. Now, you have to take care of yourself from the inside. This may sound like complex psychology, but I’ll make it as simple as possible.

Here is the problem. You were probably insecure and not confident when you were fat. Most people are. Now that you have lost weight, your mind doesn’t automatically go “hey, I’m not fat any more, now I can finally get some confidence and self-esteem and realize my dreams”. The problem is that you are probably “still fat in your mind”. You are the same old guy from before, just skinnier this time.

You are asking me for how to meet girls. You said you never had a girlfriend. You first need to start loving yourself and accepting yourself. There are many books and courses on self-confidence. I suggest you try out some of them. Don’t go for the underground ones (like in the Seduction Community). Go for mainstream people like Brian Tracy. Also, search for articles like “how to be more social” or “how to be more confident”.

When you take care of yourself, then you are ready to meet women.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

How do i pick up girls if im short and dont look my age? OK so im a freshman and im shorter than most people and i need a little help i have a bunch of friends that are girls but they just friends how can i pick up a girl if they think im in 6th or 7th grade even though im not how can i get girls to not care that im short?

My answer:

It looks like you have some inner issues. Let me ask you, are you generally successful with women?

If yes, than it’s the inner you that is attracting them. If not, then you have problems with confidence and self-esteem.

Let me explain you something. Women are very illogical creatures. That means that they don’t care what the current truth is. They do not go and analyze stuff like we do. For example, if a fat guy comes up to a woman in a very confident way and starts teasing her and being all playful, she won’t think “hey, this guy is too fat to be so confident, I think I should turn off my attraction towards him”. Women just go along with whatever if you act like you’re okay with it.

So, learn how to effectively interact with women. Don’t act like it’s weird for you to get hot women. Act like it’s an everyday thing. If you are okay with whatever you do to women, they’ll be okay with it also.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasn’t taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question: Ok so this is the first Valentine’s Day I have been single for a long time. Would it be a good night to go out to the bars to pick up girls? Would you say your more or less likely to pick someone up on Valentine’s Day?

Answer: Yes, YES, and HELL YES…

In fact, valentine’s day is the BEST DAY of the year to get laid. Why? Coz all the single ladies are out there SPECIFICALLY waiting, hoping and wishing to meet a guy. Take your chances of picking up a girl on an average night out and multiply them by 1000% and you get valentine’s day. Its that good.

Picking up girls in clubs is not as easy as it seems! In fact in may come as a surprise to some, but I would actually argue that clubs are some of the toughest places to pick up girls believe it or not. There are a number of factors working against you, such as having to fight to be heard over the music, being crammed, and having to deal with her friends. However, despite these setbacks, there are actual methods of picking up girls in clubs.

You don’t have to be Don Juan to ensure your success when picking up girls in a club; but you do need a plan of attack (or game) before you approach the girl who has caught your eye. Follow this five step plan to develop the smoothness of Don Juan in a club!

1.) Before you approach the girl you are interested in a club, you should have positive signs from her body language. When approaching a girl in a club, you will most likely not be able to start a conversation with her (due to music being loud and other factors). Therefore, you need to court her via body language. You need to develop eye contact and smile. If she responds to your eye contact (by either looking back at you or smiling) then that is a green light to approach her. If you approach her without any positive signs, then you have the danger of appearing as a creepy guy in a club, which is what she is expecting from most guys and that will ruin your chances of attracting her.

2.) Don’t use some corny pick up line; for instance “Do you come here often?” or “can I buy you a drink?”. Remember you’re not the only player in the club! Your goal should be to set yourself apart from the average Joe. The approach that almost always guarantees success is “ask her to dance”. This shows her that you are confident and not worried about what others think; this move alone will set you apart from 90% of the other guys. However, this should be done after step one.

3.)Be responsible with your alcohol consumption; “Don’t get wasted” it is never attractive and marks a red flag about your future behavior.

4.)Once the conversation has started don’t talk about yourself too much! Show her that you are not just interested in sleeping with her, but you actually want to get to know her and like her for who she is. Everyone likes to feel important, and everyone’s favorite subject is always going to be themselves.

5.)Be a gentleman! You don’t have to be corny to be a gentleman; you should walk with her, not in front of her, and order her drink first. Basic manners your parents taught you.

Remember that picking up girls in clubs is not rocket science! If you approach her with confidence and the right attitude you will have more successes than failures.

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The Six Elements of Picking Up Girls

This G Manifesto is extremely important. This data, up until now has been highly guarded information, and revealing it could probably get me in trouble. It’s not unlike when Chinese Martial Artists started to reveal the secrets of hand to hand combat and self-defense to westerners. A lot of them got paid visits from the heavies over there. So don’t take this data sheet lightly. And don’t worry about me…desert eag (and Rugers for minor maneuvers), plus I got The Garduna behind me…..So here are The Six Elements of Picking Up Girls:

Sizzle.

This is very important for the opening. You have approach girls with snap, swagger and energy. You need to have a purpose and pitch something that is exciting, fresh and unique. For instance, pitching 3 ringside seats to a Title Fight to a couple of exotic dancers in a Gentleman’s Club is going to have some Sizzle on it (make sure you sit Girl-Boy-Girl). But know your audience; pitching a girl on an afternoon in The Turf Club at the Racetrack might seem like a good pitch on a Hollywood actress girl, unless she volunteers for PETA during her off-time. The gear you wear helps a lot. A custom, light grey Paul Smith suit (with ticket pocket) with purple pinstripes, Lilac pocket square by Brioni and a light Resort Style Armani shirt with Crocodile loafers by A. Testoni will give you that added zip that you need. Focus helps give you Sizzle. When I am picking up on a girl it might seem extremely effortless to the untrained eye. In reality, I am incredibly focused. Sometimes I am so focused I am basically clairvoyant…..with extra sensory perception…..hell, some days I can move objects, like telekinesis when I am picking up girls. Important note: girls always talk about how the like “bad boys” (their language not mine). But you can cross the line; I remember hanging out with a girl in a café during the day and two hitters came after me. It escalated into a full-blown daylight street shootout. The girl, completely unharmed, (who always said she liked “bad boys”) disconnected her phone when I tried to call her a few days later. So the lesson is, don’t push the “bad boy” thing too far. (again, girls lingo not mine)

Control.

Like any good MC that has Mic Control you need to control what is happening. For instance, don’t follow a girl you are trying to swoop to some bar that has a crappy band playing that her ex-boyfriend is in. You have to call the shots. Otherwise you could very easily end up Behind Enemy Lines. You make all decisions on where you are going and who you are rolling with. You need to know what moves to make during all hours of the day and night. Know what restaurant is best. Where the underground spots are. You need to dictate the action. Remember, part of what a night is scored on is “effective aggressiveness” and “ring generalship”. Don’t be afraid to walk away from the whole deal either. The key to this is having plenty of girls in your Pipe. You don’t even have to ask to know that my Pipe stays full like Mark Twain and General Macarthur’s.

Rapport.

This one is tough. Let’s face it, G’s and most girls have very little in common. Most normal girls don’t like Boxing, hanging out with underworld figures, eating extremely fattening foods, listening to the sound of money being counted in a money counter, negotiating gem prices, drinking wine like we are about to start prohibition again, Swooping as many girls as possible, planning heists, living a life of leisure, and being an all around jet-setting international playboy. When a girl asks you “What do you like to do for fun?” You can’t really respond with “Picking up on Girls” as an answer. (Side note: Thru an unofficial study, I have found out that many Female G’s, yes they do exist, are Bi-sexual, and because of this, saying “Picking up on girls” can be an acceptable answer).

You need to find some kind of common ground, hard as it may be at times. For instance, most white girls have some Irish blood in them, so if you’re Irish at all, Bingo, there you go. Know a little about Zodiac Signs as well. News just in, girls like talking about signs, especially exotic dancers. There is a reason fly cats in the 70′s worked the sign game. In the new millennium, however, you can’t really ask girls flat out “what’s your sign?” There guard is up on that stuff. It’s better to lead girls “down the canyon” on this. Simply put, tell a girl you just had your birthday, ask a girl when her birthday is, and within two minutes, she will be asking you what your sign is. Every time. Worst case scenario, ask a girl what her favorite animal is and say it’s yours also. Just find some something in common…….Skippy.

Trust.

Trust usually falls in line from Rapport. But still you have to work on it. Usually this is the part when you really have to put on your lying cap. For instance, if you were in a baseball bat fight with the Baseball Furies the night before, you probably want to leave it out of the conversation. Or if a girl asks you “how many girls you have slept with?” It goes without saying, that you don’t tell the truth. I remember a time when I was a young Prototype G and a girl I was swooping asked me, “how many girls you have slept with?”. I remember I responded “I don’t know, like fifty” thinking I would say a “low” number (in reality at that time it was probably about 3 to 4 times that). I remember her reaction and the funny look she had on face when I said, “fifty”. Incredibly and naively, I remember thinking that she gave me a weird look because it was such a low number (And in reality it is, if you go out a lot, you can swoop 50 fly girls in 2 months…)

The next time I called her, her number was disconnected. It wasn’t until I ran into her a few months later, (at one of my Bases of Operations at the time), that I realized that she thought that number was extremely high. It wasn’t the first or the last time a girl has called me a “pig” (her lingo not mine). Skillfully, I talked my way out of it, on the fly, and ended up closing the account. A come-from-behind knockout a la Rocky Graziano. Side note: The best answer the dreaded question “how many girls you have slept with?” is, in the sincerest way possible “I have been with a few very important girls in my life…..” And leave it at that. Trust me.

Urgency.

You have to make things happen fast when you are picking up girls. Every moment that goes by after you have gotten a girls phone number or made a date with her is hurts your chances. It’s a similar concept to “time erosion” with options trading on the New York Mercantile Exchange. Or the Chicago Board of Trade, or CME for that matter. It’s like a depreciating asset. The chances of a girl “coming to” from the hypnotism of your game starts to wear off. Always make plans with girls that night or the next. Collapse time frames.

Greed.

One of the Seven Deadly Sins. Many theorists say it’s the most important of the deadly sins. “Greed is right. Greed works. Greed clarifies, cuts through, and captures the essence of the evolutionary spirit. Greed, in all of its forms — greed for life, for money, for love, knowledge — has marked the upward surge of mankind.”Gecko. And greed — you mark my words — will not only save the G’s, but that other malfunctioning corporation called the USA………The Rest is Up to You.

Side Note:

In addition to Resort Style. On the west coast, summer style is very casual (I am primarily referring to the southern part). Don’t fall for it. People might think you are excessive and wrong for wearing a $2700 custom Italian suit in summer. Keep in mind this is made by skilled Italian craftsmen (I would call the guys who work on my suits Artists) who put about 50 hours of labor into it. Yet these same people think that think you are being excessive and wrong for wearing it, are wearing a Logoed Surf T-Shirt that costs five cents to make my some kid with missing fingers in some child labor sweat shop in some far-flung Tin Pot Republic. And they pay like $80 for the stupid T-Shirt! And I am the one being excessive and wrong…….Go Figure…..
Michael Porfirio Mason

AKA The Peoples Champ

The Guide to Getting More out of Life

http://www.thegmanifesto.com

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You know what the irony of bars is? Everyone expects to either pick up there or be picked up. Guess what though? It doesn’t happen for most people! Most women, go in there thinking they’ll pick up, go home alone and think something must be wrong with her. Most guys go in there, same thing happens, thinks women are all faulty or he’s faulty somehow.

The truth? Its actually normal! Very few people pick up successfully at bars. The main reason for this is a set of confusions, misunderstanding, miss communication and ignorance. Let me present to you both the female and male ones.

1) Men Misunderstanding-> If a woman is interested in me, she’ll show me every sign. If I approach without her giving me the right signs, I’ll just be seen as a pervert.
What he misses? She thinks that if she shows a sign, she’ll be seen as too easy or a slut. So she’s desperately trying to get his attention indirectly. Women actually BELIEVE that you can pick up on the fact she glanced over into your direction 3 times in one hour, for 2-3 seconds a glance. I’m not kidding!!!! If you actually miss this sign, and don’t approach her, she actually thinks you’ve rejected her! Yes, its crazy, I know, but its also true.

2) Women Misunderstanding -> If a man is interested in me, he’ll come over and introduce himself like a real man, without waiting for my invitiation. If I invite him first, he’ll think I’m easy and disrespect me.
What she misses? Its really, really hard for a guy to approach! He runs the risk of being seen as a pervert, approaching the wrong woman… and most importantly of all, we men can’t read subtle signals! When we approach, we are playing what feels like russian roulette. We wish women would be just a bit clearer in their signals.

Ok, ok, so that’s why hooking up at bars tends to fail most of the time. But what can you personally do about it? What can you as a guy do to improve your own odds? How can you pick up girls at a bar? Well, there is a way to work around these issues… Well, there is always the… secret!

THE SECRET: Instead of hitting on women, be friendly

Because of the missunderstandings I mentioned, you can not know which girls is interested up front right? But if you just hit on the  ones you find cute, you are playing russian roulette and risking rejection. The solution I (and tons of players) have found is to play the social card. You see, this way, you just approach women just to be social. Imagine talking to people in your company, at school or any social circle. You’re just being social.

The reason this works out, is that if she’s not interested, hey, it just remains friendly, and everyone is left feeling great having socialized with someone new. If she’s interested, she can now show signs of interest! She now feels free to show more direct interest in you. After all, you’ve approached her, so its no longer “wrong” to start flirting with you now. You’ve performed the first move.

So in essence, the secret on how to pick up girls at a bar is… Walk in there, have fun, talk to everyone, socialize, meet and introduce yourself to everyone and every group. Eventually, one of the women you’ve met, will start showing signs of interest. This is the one you start flirting with, and invite home. Trust me on this, in any bar, there’s at least 2-3 cute girls who would love to be picked up by you! The trick is in finding them! And this strategy is by far the easiest way to do this.

Here is another cool question from yahoo answers. Check it out and see if it resonates with you.

wats a good way to approach girls on myspace. The girls that i wanna go after aren’t gonna be like people i never seen before just people i never met. wat do u suggest?

My quick answer to this question:
Its quite simple really dude… The way to pick up girls on my space is to NOT hit on them! Myspace is such an easy venue for even the most dumbass to guy to start bothering girls, that her inbox is full of messages from lame pick up attempts.

So what do you do instead? Bring her into your cool life. And if you don’t have a cool life, build one! Fill your profile chock full of pictures of you partying out there with other cool guys and gals… and then just start organizing or throwing parties. See this girl you like, and simply message her something like “Hey, you look like a cool person, I am expanding our circle of cool party friends, you’re invited to come over to such and such at this time, bring some friends over”.

Leave the seduction for in real-life… Online, be a cool guy, stand out. Don’t be one of the dozens of guys hitting on her!

Here is another cool question from yahoo answers. Check it out and see if it resonates with you.

I’m Irish and i know all about how to pick up girls and stuff, techniques etc. But when i see a hot girl, it just seems so weird to approach her, i don’t know about the US, but in ireland i’ve never seen anyone do that.
Any advice?

My quick answer to this question:

Well, if you had taken my quiz, you wouldn’t even be asking this, lol… The reason you’ve never “seen” anyone do it, is that most guys who pick up girls, are “naturally good” at it. If you actally saw them approaching a girl, you would never ever in a  thousand years even think he’s never met this girl before. If you actually saw one of these guys in action, you’d simply assume its just some guy, talking to a female friend or acquintance. There is no flashing neon sign that lights up over a girls head saying “hey, this guy is picking me up over here”… Unless he’s bad at it and she desperately wants to get away from him.

Never seen any of your friends do it? Guess what, most guys in america, australia, asia, eastern or western europe have never seen their guy friends do it either. Solution? GET BETTER friends.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question: Ok so this is the first Valentine’s Day I have been single for a long time. Would it be a good night to go out to the bars to pick up girls? Would you say your more or less likely to pick someone up on Valentine’s Day?

Answer: You’ve gotta be kidding me. Are you SERIOUS!?! Not only is the answer yes, its actually YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Valentine’s day is by far the easiest night to pick up girls in the entire year (even beating out new year’s!)… Most girls spend most of the day wondering when will their prince arrive, and why they’re single on Valentine’s… In fact, its all they think about on Valentine’s for the most part. All the tips I teach you, work 1000x better on Valentine’s! Women just wanna get a guy at ANY cost on valentine’s!