If you want to have abundance of hot sexy women in your life than you should do the total opposite of what the most guys are doing. You need to call the shots. If you flip the script on girls and do the opposite of most guys girls will be falling for you in no time. Here is one secret thing that I use all the time when I meet chicks.

I know that society has told you many times that women control the dating arena. You have heard that they control everything and that they make all the rules. That is not true. But many people don’t know this simple truth. Smart guys flip the script on the same system that women use to control men and dating!

I am sure that you have heard that marketers use scarcity talk to make their customers more likely to buy. If there is a lack of some thing, it will become expensive and people will want it more. We always want something that is missing. The same is with women, they want something that not all people can have.

Many guys simply offer themselves to women and become too available, and who wants something that you can have anytime and it’s easily reachable? Nobody. These guys are simply not a challenge and women walk all over them.

So the formula is.. Reverse the game and make it look like you are qualifying her, now you are looking if is she good enough to be with you. By doing this you are making yourself expensive and scarce, and women love expensive and scarce stuff. And in the same time you are a big challenge for her. With this simple but not easy change in mindset women will react much better to your presence. I would not wonder if some of them openly proposition you for sex. This is strength of this mindset. Use it well.

Welcome to my website on picking up girls. I hope you find most of the information on here useful. There’s a ton of stuff, and there’s bound to be some articles or Q&A pieces that answer your question. So look into all the articles listed below or to the side.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

Write me some good tips on how to pick-up females you see for the first time? Guys: write me some good to great tips; Females: write what pick up lines do you like from a guy.

My answer:

I’ll start from the last question. Females don’t care which pick up line you use to meet them. They don’t care how you meet them as long as you come of as normal and honest.

I could give you some pickup lines to say to women when going up to them, but that wouldn’t do the trick. When approaching a woman, you must focus on improving your overall presentation. And the opening line is just a tiny bit of that presentation.

So, the most important things are actually pretty simple. You go up to her, have a smile, don’t hold your hands in your pockets, don’t fidget or act nervous in any way, and at last, say what you want to say. I strongly recommend that you say something normal like “Hey, I don’t have some clever pick up line or anything…I just came over here to meet you.”

It’s that simple, that easy, that obvious.

Also, be cool to however she reacts. If she doesn’t welcome your approach, keep your cool smile and be a gentleman about it. You say “Ok, it was nice meeting you”.

Here is another tip about approaching. As you see a female you would like to approach, do it as soon as possible. Just start walking towards her. Don’t worry, your mind will think of something to say.

I know that this title sounds like a snake oil ad. But it’s true. Have you noticed how men go out of their way just to be seen around beautiful woman. Isn’t that pathetic. It is. But as we know, we all love beauty. So that’s ok in away. Beauty is ok, but please that doesn’t mean that your mind should be 24/7 focused on women.

Now I will write about some proven ways to pick up a nice girl, and no it does not include snake oil or any of it’s by products.

Like likes like. Beauty likes beauty. Beautiful girls like beautiful guys, and the other way around of course. But there is a catch, you don’t have to look like a male supermodel to be with beautiful girls. Confidence is quite enough. (Thank God!)

Do you really have the inner qualities that a man attractive to beautiful women has. If you don’t have the qualities, develop them. Ask women what they look in a guy, and then develop that.

You must always know how to talk eloquently to a woman. You don’t have to become a top of the shelf sweet talking womanizer, just know what women want and give it to them. Show them that you understand them and their needs. Be interesting and charming, and a bit seductive. That’s the winning combination.

I have almost forgot the issue of great eye contact. You don’t have to talk as much if you know how to make a good seductive eye contact. When a woman says you have beautiful eyes that actually means that you have sexy eye contact. And that’s great. Eyes are the mirror of the soul, and eye contact is like sex for the soul.

Always physically escalate. Sometimes guys do everything right, except this one little thing. That thing is called – MAKING YOUR GODDAMN MOVE. Yes, make a move as fast you can. Otherwise you will hear the dreaded let’s be friends line. Please no!

Just do these simple things and I know your success with women will skyrocket.

by jbcurio

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

How to pick up girls and good places to pick up girls at.? Okay so I’ve recently had a bunch of girls tell me I was hot but they are between 18 and 20 and I’m only 16 so I think i can pick up girls but i don’t know how because i just lost 85 pounds so I’ve never had a girlfriend or tried to get one because of how fat i was but now i think i could pick up some girls.

My answer:

It’s good to hear you have taken care of yourself on the outside. Now, you have to take care of yourself from the inside. This may sound like complex psychology, but I’ll make it as simple as possible.

Here is the problem. You were probably insecure and not confident when you were fat. Most people are. Now that you have lost weight, your mind doesn’t automatically go “hey, I’m not fat any more, now I can finally get some confidence and self-esteem and realize my dreams”. The problem is that you are probably “still fat in your mind”. You are the same old guy from before, just skinnier this time.

You are asking me for how to meet girls. You said you never had a girlfriend. You first need to start loving yourself and accepting yourself. There are many books and courses on self-confidence. I suggest you try out some of them. Don’t go for the underground ones (like in the Seduction Community). Go for mainstream people like Brian Tracy. Also, search for articles like “how to be more social” or “how to be more confident”.

When you take care of yourself, then you are ready to meet women.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

Hey how to pick up girls at clubs!!!? hey this week im going to a all age event because im still 18 i was just wondering how can i pick up a girl at the girl
you know at all age events how you just grab on and the dance and some times they like push you of
well i don’t want that i wanna first talk face to face then dance
i wanna get a numbers and stuff
how can i do it
plz help me im so shy
i go all red

My answer:

I was wondering why are you even going to a club to pickup women and contemplating what to say to you until you said that you are shy. First of all, if you are shy, there are much better places to meet women, you don’t need clubs.

However, if you are going to this club, I will give you the easy and quick way to meet her. If you want to get her contact information, it’s best to talk to her in the quietest part of the club and not make it too long. Wherever you do talk to her, just get her number as soon as possible and go on to the next woman.

You can really approach them any way. Just don’t do something the average guy does, it’s boring and annoying. Do something different. Approach her directly and sincerely that you want to meet her, or approach her and make fun of her hairstyle.

After more than 3 minutes of conversation, ask her for her number and move on. Approach more women like this and some will answer back probably.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

How to attract girls and how it is helpful for the pickup lines? I wanna complete information about the pickup lines and how it is useful in attracting girls…

My answer:

Well, it might seem as pickup lines are useful for attracting women, but they are actually not. When you see a confident guy approach a woman and seduce her, you might think that it was the line that got him the women. Actually, the line he used to approach her is the least that helped him.

He is most probably a guy who is generally successful with women. He has done it many times, and it presents nothing new to him. It’s the fact that he approached her with no problem and continued to chat with her in a charming and playful way. That’s what he has going for him.

I can give you the best pick up line and I bet that you won’t achieve nothing with it, unless you are already confident and comfortable with women.

So, fix your inner game first. Go look it up on the internet, “inner game meeting women”. You will find large resources that explain it in a detailed way.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

what are some pickup lines to yell at girls at a volleyball game? My friends and i went to a high school volleyball game and i want to know some funny pickup lines to yell at the girls on the court. it is just for fun (maybe).

My answer:

1. You be the tree, and I’ll wrap you like a Koala.
2. You don’t need car keys to drive me crazy.
3. You might not be the best looking girl here, but beauty is only a light switch away.
4. You sure have a great looking tooth.
5. I wish I were sine squared and you were cosined squared, because together we could be one.
6. I’m feeling a little off today. Would you like to turn me on?
7. Do you have a mirror in your pocket? [No, why?] ‘Cause I can see me in your pants.
8. May I have some kisses up here, please.
9. If a star fell from the sky every time I thought about you, then tonight the sky would be empty.
10. My love for you is like diarrhea. I just can’t hold it in.
11. Haven’t I seen you before? Maybe in my dreams?
12. If home is where the heart is, then my home is in you.
13. You must be a magician, because everytime I look at you, everyone else disappears.
14. You want me. I can smell it.
15. If you were a drug, I would overdose!

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

Where is the best place to pick up girls? I think the best place to pick up girls is somewhere unique. Like a supermarket or a park or a bus-stop. As long as she isn’t a prostitute. What do u think?

My answer:

I agree with you very much indeed. Guys usually think that bars and clubs are the best places, only because it’s been portrayed like that in the media. Contrary to the popular opinion, bars and clubs are the worst places to meet women.

Actually, meeting her at a bus-stop, park, or a shop isn’t that unique at all. It is simply ordinary, and that’s the great thing about it. Almost no man has the courage to approach women at places like that. It is easier to get drunk in a club and hide among the crowd and loud music.

Other good places are shopping malls, hair salons, beauty salons in general, dance lessons, cooking lessons, museums, big parks, various festivals, churches, various local events, coffee shops, theaters, cinemas, etc.

There is really many great places as you see.